Soft Center

¬† ¬† ¬† ¬† ¬† ¬† Many of us (most of us!) make judgments or decisions about people and situations based entirely on a first glace.¬† I’m wondering if it’s another cultural failure?¬† Are we raised and reared to cast those spur-of-the-moment, based-on-nothing, declarations of others? ¬† ¬† ¬† ¬† ¬† ¬† ¬†Because when we […]

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Seeking, Finding, Being

¬† ¬† ¬† ¬† ¬† ¬† ¬†There is the thought, in zen belief systems, of all emotions and feelings being equal.¬† That all is balanced, in accordance.¬† That all is harmonized, united with all else. ¬† ¬† ¬† ¬† ¬† ¬† ¬†In my on-going quest to learn the Release Lesson (so I don’t have to […]

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Rising Tide

¬† ¬† ¬† ¬† ¬† ¬† ¬†My relationship with food had been complicated for as far back as I can recall.¬† When I was fast approaching 50, I believed this was a unique situation.¬† Turns out, not so much. ¬† ¬† ¬† ¬† ¬† ¬† ¬†Our culture has raised generation after generation of fucked up […]

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As Need Be, As Is

¬† ¬† ¬† ¬† ¬† ¬† ¬†Among us are teams, duos, couples who pair well and share¬†generously¬†of their gifts. ¬†They’ve been together “forever” it seems. ¬†Their relationship is¬†idyllic. ¬† ¬† ¬† ¬† ¬† ¬† Maybe, maybe not. ¬†What we’re really seeing is the concept of YinYang in the flesh. ¬†That God/Goddess ideal, but up and¬†walking¬†around […]

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