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Simply Miraculous.

            Before this post goes up I’ll have changed the color and header photo.  Don’t be shocked, you WERE forewarned.  (Several times.)  I was just really done with that shade, and even though I kept fiddling with it, I couldn’t capture the happiness it originally brought me.  My hope is that I’ve found a new form of joy by the time this is in front of you guys.

           That original idea I had for a picture is NOT what you’re seeing right now.  I couldn’t make that work.  I’m gonna need Dan’s help, and advice.  But while I trudged today (for some reason, five miles felt like 55) I thought of another lovely image.  Wanna know WHY I thought of this one?  Because my feet were not covered in band aids, that’s why.

Not the problem.

           A few weeks ago  a lovely friend (who cares about my health and well-being) e-mailed me with a suggestion.  Her own feet have been problematic at times, so she thought that what she’d found to be helpful, might also help mine.  She was right.  They did help.  All that time we stressed over the shoes, when really, the solution was the socks.  These socks.  To be exact.

              I had a bit of a false start, so I immediately contacted the company (because ya know, I’m a pest like that).  I got an amazingly fast and thoughtful response.  Tom was wonderful!  And we figured out the first problem.  My second problem (the shoes “eat” my socks) seems to have worked its ownself out now.  There will still be new shoes in my future (as soon as we can afford them) but for now, I’ve been made blissfully happy by the current solution of better socks.

            My neighbors, on the other hand, are not all living in bliss.  Or, at least, their trees aren’t.  Many people are STILL dealing with the storm damage caused by that late snow fall.  The rocket scientist next door has spent several days in his front yard.  On a small stool.  In front of the stump which used to be a tree.  With a chainsaw pointed down into the hole!  It is simply frightening in the extreme.

             Remember this disaster site?  Yeah, it’s tidier now, but no less painful to gaze upon.  There are more than one of these views on my Route. 

            Mostly everyone, like these folks, have it all stacked or mulched or run through the chipper by now.  I feel bad for them, but I like seeing how nice and efficient the clean-up is going.  (With the obvious exception being You Know Who right next door.)

            Our message today is the perfect next step for us too, it’s so validating in regards to what we’ve been getting lately.

“The Fire Prince  ~  optimism, aggression.

When the Fire Prince arrives as your Ally, he lets you know that he represents the invisible forces behind all manner of manifestation, and he brings you the gift of optimism.  You will be rightly inspired to move forward and take confident and assertive action to reach your goal.

Envisioning the path of the highest good with an optimistic outlook, the Fire Prince also brings you the gift of a miracle.  Things come together as if by magic to create the reality you seek.

You have every reason to be hopeful.  Move forward, knowing that you have everything you need and more.  Just remember to share the enthusiasm, believe in others, and be optimistic for them, too, and your good fortune will multiply.”

             Even though this one was absolutely in the direct position when I flipped it, as with another one recently, I’m being advised that we need to see both sides.  

“There are a couple of messages delivered by the Fire Prince, so take heed as one or both could pertain to you now.  Be mindful of starting a fire you can’t put out.  Aggressive action results in loss; slow down and don’t be so eager to reach your goal.  Stay clear of someone else’s unbridled ambition and aggression as well.  If you think you could get burned, you most certainly will – unless you remove yourself from the action.

When the Fire Prince arrives as a Challenger, he could also be warning you to be careful of burnout.  This might pertain to workaholism or obsessively focusing on something you want, excluding all else.  You may be afraid to let go, but you must.  If you keep going they way you are, truly you won’t have any energy left, nor will you see your way through your path.  It is easy to get lost in the dark where there is no flame to light the way.”

            Okay, now we’ve seen the options and choices.  This will definitely be the right card for us all, on many different levels.  

Today’s Deck:

Wisdom Of The Hidden Realms Oracle Cards by Colette Baron-Reid

 

Interactions.

           All of the different ways that we deal with all of our different relationships has been on my mind lately.   Earlier in the day, when I turned our card over, it fueled this idea and validated my thoughts, so we’ll start there tonight.

           We have exchanges with people all the time, in person, on the phone, via text or tweetie, writing back and forth either in e-mails or real live paper letters.  Sometimes it’s with strangers or acquaintances, just super quickly and simply in passing, but then there are the times when we are able to spend time with people we truly care about, and who care about us.

“Friendships  ~

Call a friend.

When you are mirrored with love, you see yourself clearly.”

             I think that last bit is a really a good point, we are pack animals, and we flourish when we spend time with our loved ones.  But looking at it the other way is so important as well.  When we begin from a place of honor and caring, about ourselves, we can ripple that out automatically every time we have an interaction with someone else.  Like the asshat from the luggage store.  I can’t imagine how he thought the things he was saying to me were appropriate.  Where was he coming from?  Certainly not a place of honor or caring, and really no where near love.

           As I trudged around the neighborhood today I came across tons of people, not a one of them I knew, or knew anything about.  But I smiled at all of them and they all smiled back.  Unlike Mr Shop Owner.  If he had been there, I would have had to ask him, “was THAT so damn hard?!”  But he wasn’t there.  Other, nicer, folks were though.  Like this gentleman.

            I followed him for blocks and blocks and blocks.  He was walking much more slowly than I was, but his legs are about three times longer than mine, so we stayed about the same distance apart.  Several times he glanced back to see if I had caught up yet.  I never did.  When he finally took a turn, and I continued on straight ahead, he looked over his shoulder and gave me a little nod and smile.  It was lovely.  And so was he.

          There were two girls, maybe around 12 or so, sitting in a front yard.  They looked up and smiled too.  As did the running guy, the lady walking her fluffy little canine companion, and the older man watering his lawn.  Same with the two women dragging a pair of bulldogs (they don’t seem to know that this particular breed would rather stay home on the couch).  And this couple too.

           Okay, you can’t really see them very well.  But belive me, they were delightfully friendly.  It was a mirror day for me, all the places I went, and every person I encountered was pleasant.  Was it because I presented my wee self elf as pleasant first?  Or were they pleasant and then I reacted the same way?  Not sure.  But ya know, when this stuff is in my head, it has to come out here.  So, I share.

          Here’s what Daniel shared with me this evening.  He was on his way into the office while I was out pounding the pavement (we leave at the same time, but as I’ve mentioned, I have no pockets, so I can’t carry much).  But he took a phone photo and sent it to me, so that I could see it when I got home.

            Can you make out the deer (through his windshield) on this path?  My reply was that this was so funny.  His next message was:

It was hysterical – mama in front, 2 spotty fawns, then mama bringing up the rear.  Just jogging along past walkers and runners!

           Apparently it really was a very socializing type of day, for everyone.  Must have been why this was on my mind. 

           I have added back one of my hills from the previous route, and when I came down that road (the golf ball wasn’t there anymore, must have finally figured out how to roll) I saw this bumper sticker, but couldn’t get a picture of it:

I suffer from CRS

Can’t Remember Shit.

          Very entertaining.  The other thing I saw that I SO wanted to tell you guys was that I had another one of my Non-Celebrity Spottings.  This time it was Gregg Allman.  Or, perhaps it was just a blonde dude who looked EXACTLY like him.  Either, or.  Hard to say for sure.  Before that, the only Foreign License Plate I came across was from British Columbia. Cheers Carol!

            Here’s a bit of something that I observed, and could not explain.

           It was there on Wednesday too.  It’s the back and seat of a chair.  With no legs.  And it’s been on that sidewalk for over three days now.  I really want to know why.  And why someone hasn’t moved it.  It bugs me.

           One last thing, and then I have to go forage for left-overs.

             It’s a red bench.  On someone’s front porch.  This doesn’t bug me, I just want one.  In the direction I’ve been going lately I see quite a few houses with nice chairs or benches on porches.  But I never see anyone sitting on them.  I would sit on this one.  A.  Lot.  And then smile at every person and animal who passed by.