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Boy Sighting in Front of Dutch Brothers on 13th.

The Walnut of Death Adventures continue.  Daniel and I ran errands today.  We stopped for Fish ‘n Chips To Go (okay, I had fish ‘n shrimp, whatever).  After placing our order we took a pre-dinner constitutional around the block, as we are wont to do.  We like to look at historic buildings and always try to find something new or interesting or unexpected, and then speculate wildly about it.  But this time, the unexpected item we found was a person.  Truthfully, he found us.  If he were a seriously bad person (instead of just a dorky kid with teenaged Boy Brain suffering from the effects of a shallow parental gene pool) he would have peddled right on past, and we never would have known he was there.  But he’s a genuinely good person, albeit handicapped by bad mothering/fathering, and a complete deficit of motivation.  He rode right up to us, a large boy-child on a small undersized bicycle  (the type “kids now adays” seem to find perfect for hopping curbs and jumping cement dividers).

“Elliott!” I exclaimed.  Yes, my wayward nephew had appeared, seemingly out of the mists of time.  He looked as he had the last time I saw him (too many months ago) only maybe a bit fuller in the face, and both his ears were pierced although I only remember it being one.  Typical of him, he didn’t have a lot to say, except to scoff and snort at the mention of his father’s plan to live in a travel trailer (which I had heard about way back in October).  He pointed out the building he’s been attending school in, enrolled in an alternative program that I was only peripherally aware of.  I told him of my expectant wait for The Grand Opening of the downtown taco place we both enjoyed and he said that he would very much like to go with me, or possibly meet me there.

When we parted, he stood from his bike and hugged me warmly, allowing me to reach up and kiss his cheek, as he always has, repeating, as he always has, “I love you too” when I tell him the same.  He’s a pill, but I miss him.  This sighting made my day. 

(Dinner was good too.)

Communication day…

only I didn’t get the memo.  I sure did get the result though.  Today I received texts from:

all of the people I gave birth to

the wayward nephew (just ‘checking in’)

my long lost other ‘son’ (the one of color in Oklahoma)

my sainted sister-in-law

and my ridiculous spouse (who sent me a message from the driveway)!

Planning ahead is apparently bad for you.

My mother says, “Don’t make plans, things always come up, then you have to change them.  So just don’t make them, write everything in pencil.”  She may be freakin’ nuts, but so often she is correct.  I signed up for a quilting class (I take many, I am addicted to them), but it was on a Tuesday, my Elliott day, so I made arrangements for Emma to sub for me.  Yesterday she tells me that she has been called in on her day off, can’t do cousin duty.  Then tonight I find out the class is canceled.  Dandy.  Sometimes I wonder why I even try.

Bookends.

A day of both boys.  Elliott and I went to the mall today.  No school work, just buying things we needed, and eating of course.  Sort of accidentally saw his sister there, that was random and lovely.  Now my son is on his way over.  Pepper spray incident at the jail tonight, his clothes are unwearable.  He normally does his own wash at the beautiful historic building in which he dwells.  But he has to work tomorrow, again, and he is out of quarters, and I am up any way, and three more odd packages arrived for him today.  So really, why not?  A two-boy day, nice for a change.

Junk drawer.

My girl went North again.  I missed her before she left.  But she arrived safely, laughed at my voice mail, spent time with friends, and is planning her next trip home.

Elliott and I have to go shopping.  He needs a new hat, his uncle needs new undies.  Already his handwriting is beginning to improve.

I got to swap text messages with Nikki while I was sitting in the parking lot of the grocery store.  She was so happy to chat this way and I was happy to be there for her.

I had a great card reading tonight.  Sometimes I amaze myself when it goes this well and people pay me for it.

Graham’s car wouldn’t start because it was in the driveway, which is way too steep to be parked that far forward.  In my infinite cleverness I shoved large pieces of wood around, got footing for the people who needed to push the car onto a level surface, and then I made the car run.

I talked to my son today, and sewed on some buttons for him when he came by to pick up (another) suit he ordered on line.

I saved my brother-in-law from having to come home to a dirty kitchen.  Loading a dishwasher is easy for me, not the same for some folks though.

Even though I somehow ended up emptying a (not too full) bottle of water into my purse, hardly anything was damaged, wet yes, damaged, not really.  (And it made other people smile.)

I can feel the retrograde slipping away and the blessings of the full moon shining upon me.  And all of those that I love and adore.